your pain has purpose

Photo by Ildiko Varga

Someone asked me: “Why am I here?”
And what’s behind that question is: why am I in pain? The only time you ever really ponder your existence is when it’s heavy and painful.

People search their entire lives for the meaning of their pain, why they had to be in pain, and how to make it stop.

The answer you are looking for is only available to you when you’re ready to hear it.

Pain has purpose. It never shows up in your world without reason.

Pain is a master teacher, a catalyst for transmutation of being.
It signals that what you are doing or thinking isn’t beneficial to you or others.
Other times, it cleanses away rusty identities. 

Pain is as valuable as love, but only one is socially acceptable. You, your soul, both need to learn, even though one tastes better than the other, maybe.

Some of your beliefs are anchored so deeply in your being and lived in your reality that only when you break open they can break away.

There’s a difference between being in pain and suffering. Suffering is unaddressed, unnoticed pain that has no beginning and no end. Being in pain is a transmutator - it brings you into the state of being able to receive or see the truths about yourself. 

For instance, grief actually teaches you about love. It breaks you open to be able to love someone or something so deeply that you can let it go. It is a process from the moment of loss to the new version of yourself, the in-between, the journey of becoming you without and beyond what you’ve lost.

Grief shows you how you love, and what deep desires and needs are unfulfilled.
Yet, we don’t teach people how to grieve, and therefore, it’s demonised as suffering. 

Pain has purpose. You just need to let go of the idea that things work the way you want them to. Then you can learn how things really are, and the proper techniques and tools to navigate and resolve the pain in your life.

That’s exactly what this space is for and why I am here.
I teach people how to recognise, feel and transmute the pain in their lives.

The first level of teaching is awareness.
We need to know what’s wrong in order to be able to find a solution.

The next stage is experience and acceptance.
We need to truly feel the pain, witness it, in order to accept that this really happened to you.

The last stage is finishing the pain story.
We need to meet the needs that were unmet and tie up loose ends. We don’t keep going back. 

The only thing holding you back from finishing your pain story is the fear of losing the control you pretend to have, your fear of truly feeling your pain.

The price of healing is pain, but staying is costly!
Feeling pain is different from suffering. 

I show you how (click on me), or send me a message here.